Coordinated by: Durrah Aman & Isra Sheikh
As we keep the spirit of Mother’s Day alive, we reached out to some inspiring moms to hear their thoughts on the experience—from touching tributes to their own mothers, to heartfelt messages for their children, and reflections on their personal journeys as first-time moms. In this special feature, they share the wisdom they’ve gained, the love they’ve experienced, and the lessons they wish they’d known along the way. Whether honoring the women who raised them, to heartfelt notes for their children, or sharing insights from their own journey, these messages are a beautiful celebration of the complexities and joys of motherhood.
Kiran Malik
(Actor-Model)
Happy Mother’s Day to my favourite girl. Thank you for filling my world with laughter, late-night talks, eye rolls, and love that runs deeper than I ever imagined.
You’ve grown into someone strong, kind, and full of light (with just the right amount of sass to keep me on my toes) Mama loves you.
- a message for her daughter
Anum Uzair
(Mountaineer)
One thing I wish I had known as a first-time mom is that postpartum depression is very real—and far more common than we realize. In the beginning, I couldn’t quite grasp what was happening to me emotionally. I had set a goal to quickly return to my pre-pregnancy weight, but eventually, I realized that my daily runs and workouts weren’t about fitness—they were my way of coping with the emotional weight I was carrying. I just wish I had understood it sooner and given myself more grace.
- On one thing she wishes she had known as a first-time mom
Anusheh Asad
(Model-Influencer)
My message to first-time moms is this: don’t get overwhelmed. Slow down, and truly enjoy your child. They grow up so fast, and the little moments you share become the most precious memories—so cherish the ‘now.’
- On what she wants new moms to remember
Seyham Vahidy
(Creative PR and Image Consultant)
When you become a mom for the first time, you’re never truly prepared for the sleepless nights, the unpredictable routine, and the responsibility of caring for someone so fragile and completely dependent on you. But always remember—your hard work and sacrifices will one day become your strength in the toughest moments. And the bond you’ll share with your child will be unlike any other.
- On finding strength in the chaos of new motherhood
Kherzan Zaidi
(Founder, AKMS)
Who knew having a baby would unlock a secret level of respect and love for my parents? Like, how did they do this without losing their minds?? Motherhood has me realizing my mom is basically a superhero in disguise. All those sleepless nights, the chaos, the emotional rollercoaster—and she made it look easy. Man, it’s not easy at all!!! Motherhood is beautiful. I can’t even begin to express how grateful I am for this blessing but wow, it’s wonderfully hard too!
- On discovering new levels of appreciation for her parents
Frieha Altaf
(CEO & Creative Director, Catwalk Event Management & Productions)
On Mother’s Day, my message to my mother is one of good health and just… for her. She’s eighty-two and a half, MashaAllah! And I don’t think there’s any other human being in my life—no one, not even my own child—who is closer to me than my mom. No one has ever loved me like she has. She’s cool-headed, kind-hearted, warm, so gentle, and so fashionable—I get that bit from her! She’s always made the right decisions for us, like putting us in the right school—the Convent of Jesus and Mary. She always knew what was best for us. I can still argue with her, have a chat with her like a friend. For me, my mother has to be the most special person in my life!
- On the timeless bond she shares with her mother
Farina Ghauri
(Fashion Influencer & Admin, Pakistan Streetstyle)
I wish I knew how short the baby period lasts. At the time, things felt so difficult because of the lack of sleep, but they grow up so fast. Now, I really miss that time.
- On cherishing the fleeting moments of babyhood
Rubia Moghees
(PR & Consultancy)
As a first-time mom, I didn’t know that my baby would teach me so much about unconditional love and patience. Motherhood forced me to confront my limits and even step beyond them at times—every cry feeling like a puzzle to solve and every laugh a precious moment to cherish.
The best part was that even when I felt somewhat prepared by the time I had my third-born, I quickly realized I still had mountains to climb to truly understand the experience of becoming a mother. You become a whole new person while constantly doubting yourself because you’re alone in the journey. Even with the influence of so many strong mothers around, the experience can feel isolating. But I always go back to the moments where I wish I had known I had the quiet strength to reshape those chaotic moments—one burp, nap, and smile at a time. Now, looking back, I realize it wasn’t that I didn’t know how to handle it; it was that my body, mind, and soul instinctively worked together to meet each challenge as it came. I was simply learning in real time, and that’s the beauty of this journey: the quietest and loudest transformation of my life.
On motherhood’s unpredictable yet transformative path
Numra Waqas
(CEO, Numra Makeup Studio & Salon)
A message for all mothers: self-care is essential, not selfish. It’s so easy to put yourself last when you’re constantly tending to a little human who needs you 24/7. But what I didn’t realize in those early days is that you can’t pour from an empty cup. When you take time to recharge—even if it’s just an hour to yourself—you come back more present, more patient, and more you. A happy, rested mom doesn’t just feel better—she shows up better for her baby, too. That’s one of the reasons we love pampering moms at our salon. Whether it’s a relaxing facial, a fresh blow-dry, or just a peaceful moment to sip your tea while someone takes care of you—you deserve it. Every mom does.
- On the importance of self-care for mothers
Shazia Wajahat
(Pakistani Television & Film Producer)
I wish I knew that my boys would grow up so fast. Always make the most of their childhood because, in no time, they will be on their own.
- On making the most of your children’s fleeting childhood
