Fido Zahid on the subtle power of style, mindful living, and self-assured presence.
Durrah Aman meets the gracefully poised Fido Zahid, whose calm confidence and devoted care for her home and self make her presence quietly powerful. For her, style is more than adornment—it is a gentle expression of gratitude, a language of thoughtfulness and intention. In this conversation, she shares her reflections on self-image, the poetry of presentation, and the art of carrying oneself with composed, unwavering confidence.
D: How would you describe yourself as a person, especially in the context of self-image?
F: I’m someone who thinks deeply but chooses to stay rooted in the present. I do not dwell on the past—pleasant or painful. I value growth, change, and learning. For me, self-image evolves continuously, and I consciously adapt my look and presentation to reflect that evolution. Two years ago, I carried myself differently. As trends changed, I updated my appearance—not to imitate fashion blindly, but to interpret it in a way that aligns with who I am.
I blend global trends with local fashion, always keeping everything modest and refined. Change refreshes the mind and influences how people perceive and interact with you. When you evolve your look, even something as simple as looking in the mirror becomes a joy—you feel renewed, almost as if meeting a new version of yourself.
D: Have you always followed trends and paid attention to your appearance?
F: Yes, always. I can naturally discern what works and what does not. But trends alone do not define my style—I adapt them to suit my personality. People, especially in Karachi, often appreciate this balance and have even suggested I start a fashion line. My personal rule is that trends should enhance your individuality, not overshadow it.
D: How do you ensure a trend aligns with your own style and image?
F: I’m mindful of keeping everything modest, smart, and internationally acceptable. I prefer neutral tones—black, beige, grey, and soft earth colors. Trends should elevate your presence, not make you look out of place. I especially encourage NRPs to evolve their fashion sense, as they represent a culture rich in craft, design, and heritage.
D: Many people feel fashion can be uncomfortable. Do you agree?
F: Fashion should never be uncomfortable. You can wear modern attire while carrying a chadar—it’s about styling. Comfort is part of being put-together. When you feel comfortable, your confidence naturally shines.
D: When we talk about one’s personal image, how important is it?
F: Extremely important. Your self-image is your introduction before you speak. I dress according to the setting—formal and sophisticated for meetings and conferences; elevated yet elegant for glamorous events. There is a fine line between polished and overly glamorous. Subtlety always communicates refinement.
Makeup should complement your attire, never overpower it. Aim for a natural, clean look so your personality shines more than your accessories.
D: Are there any wellness rituals you follow to maintain inner and outer radiance?
F: Yes. Radiance begins internally. I avoid negative thoughts and turn to the Qur’an and du’a when upset. Anger, envy, and resentment affect your appearance more than people realize. Beauty is deeply connected to inner peace. I avoid gossip, appreciate the beauty around me, and practice forgiveness. These habits lighten the heart and reflect on your face.
D: What about beauty tips? What do you follow consistently?
F: Self-care is essential—if you don’t care for yourself, who will? I believe in natural remedies. I use oils—almond, olive, coconut—for my hair and skin, especially before showering to fight dryness. A mix of yoghurt and besan works wonderfully as a face mask. For years, I’ve combined petroleum jelly with coconut oil on my face—a practice now popularly known as “slugging.” Organic ingredients give long-term results, far beyond most packaged products.
Monthly ritual: Vaseline with egg yolk.
DIY tip: Sugar scrub for the body.
Next experiment: Rice water!
D: Do you follow any particular eating habits?
F: I love food, but discipline is key. My favourite meals are simple—daal, chawal, sabzi. I don’t overeat, nibble throughout the day, or drink soft drinks, and I avoid junk food. But yes—I am the biggest biryani fan!
D: In your opinion, what is the foundation of a strong personal image?
F: Confidence is the most important thing you “wear.” Regardless of age, it should be strong enough to make an impression when you enter a room. I am naturally shy but am teaching myself independence—going places alone, carrying myself well. Ultimately, you only have yourself; your self-image must reflect strength and self-respect.
D: What advice would you give to anyone wanting a more polished and put-together outlook?
F: I have an instinct for assembling a complete look—from clothing to grooming. My advice: identify your personal style, maintain cleanliness and neatness, and check your appearance before leaving home. Ensure your hair is tidy, your face fresh, and your clothes clean. These small steps change how you feel throughout the day.
Most importantly, love yourself. Many people adore clothes and accessories but neglect self-love, and it shows. When you take care of yourself—physically and emotionally—you command respect effortlessly.
People often say they don’t have time to look after themselves. My response: if you don’t have time for yourself, what do you have time for? Take fifteen minutes daily to connect with yourself. Everyone is beautiful—they just need the care they deserve.
